Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Bob







No, I am not "the crazy woman".  It was breaking my heart to leave Bob at home when we take our twice daily walks with Vino, so I thought, "Hey - let's try a stroller!".  (My husband DID look at me like I was the crazy woman, but that's ok.....sometimes I am.) 

Bob did very well in the stroller, then we let him walk the last block or so on leash.  Don't like leaving part of the pack behind.

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Vino the Wonder Dog


Our wonderful friend, Buddy, went over the Rainbow Bridge on September 23, 2013.  Barry had him for 14 years, so he was at least 15 years old.  I've know him for five years and can testify he was a wonderful friend and faithful companion.  He adored Barry, and the feeling was mutual.  He accepted Bob (my Min Pin) and me into the pack (Buddy, Petey the cat & Barry)  in 2008 and loved us, too.  In April, we added Tinkerbella (3 year old cat) and though Buddy didn't "adore" her, he left her alone (which was good by me!!)

Losing Buddy was hard on all of us - especially Barry.  Though we still had Bob, he is not active (12 years old with health issues).  Barry missed having a companion who would chase balls and run around and keep him company while he worked in the yard.  So Barry started looking for another Jack Russell to help him deal with his loss.  He found the Russell Rescue in Columbia, TN.  We had planned a trip to Nashville the next weekend, so we decided to stop by and check them out.

At the Russell Rescue Adoption Fair in Spring Hill, TN, we found this skinny, lively one year old Russell named Patch (he has a black ring around his left eye).  Barry fell for him, so the next day on our way back to Huntsville we got him and brought him home for two weeks of "fostering".  After two names changes, we settled on "Vino" (an ode to our love of wine).

I was not prepared for all the energy and activity that accompanies the arrival of a J.R. puppy in your home.  First, he wanted to eat the cats.   Literally.  Eat them.  I was not liking this at all.  He was digging and jumping and rarely stayed calm.  The "Zen" in our home was definitely disrupted.

I went to MS to visit the gkids the next weekend (four days) and Barry had Vino - and a contractor doing work in our house + Bob, Petey & Tinkerbella - by himself.  The first couple of days he thought it wasn't going to work.  Much cat chasing and accidents ensued.  But by the third Susan-less day, Vino seemed to turn the corner.  Co-existing with the cats without eating them, resting some on Barry's lap in the evening, just being generally cute and loving.

Upon my return Sunday I knew it was a done deal.  Vino was ours.  The new member of our pack.  He'd found his forever home.

Vino still jumps and digs and rarely stays calm.  I must come home from work on my lunch hour every day to walk him or take him out.  We are attending obedience class (not sure which one of us is the student).   I have nicknamed him "Destructo" after he ate my earbuds, my collectable stuffed animals and every squeeky toy he's been given.

But, at the end of the day, after we wear him out with two walks totaling two hours (sometimes more!), he curls up in Barry's lap while we relax before bed.  And all is good with the world





Thursday, November 1, 2012

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

The Second Half....

....or so I tell myself.  I am 50 years old - soon to be 51.  That means I am in the second half of my life (if I live to be 100, that is).  So actually, I may be well into the second half of my life.  But I digress.  Age is just a number, right?

It's a gift, this second half.  I gift I never expected to receive.  

In this second half of my life, I have found:

Love.  True love.  Fairytale, happily-ever-after LOVE.  The love of a truly good man.  A man who honors and cherishes me.  A man who makes me feel special.   A man who loves me more than he loves himself.

Peace.  Peace in knowing I right where I'm supposed to be.  Peace in realizing drama is unnecessary.  It wastes my time and energy.  And life is too short to waste even a moment.   Peace is knowing at the end of the day, no matter what happens, I am going to a place that is safe.  My safe haven.  Not just a "house" but to a "home".

Happiness.  Happiness is a choice.  It's a journey.  I can choose to focus on the things that I think should be different in the world.  Or I can choose to be happy and just enjoy each day.  I've chosen.  Happiness rocks!

Joy.  Joy in the simple things in life, in the beauty around me.  Sitting on my back porch watching the hummingbirds chase each other across the yard.  Hearing the beautiful songs of mockingbirds that frequent our feeder.  Discovering my first bell pepper in the garden.  Seeing the amazingly beautiful purple, blue, gray & pink of a sunset.  Enjoying the smell, taste and total experience of a really good glass of Zinfandel.  Going to sleep and waking up next to the man I love, knowing he loves me back.  All these things bring me great joy.

My life is so good.  I wouldn't trade it for anything.  If I was offered the chance to go back and be 30 again, I'd say "No way".   Though I complain about the wrinkles and gray hairs and aches that are a part of life at 50, I am thankful to be right where I am today.   The second half is where I want to be.